Selfish
(adj.) Selfish individuals are self-concerned, focusing exclusively on having their own needs met.
In many cases, selfish individuals will feed off the energy of others without making any attempts at reciprocity or replenishment. They lack empathy and have little ability for understanding that others have needs too. Selfish individuals are more likely to take care of themselves first, and if you identify as being selfless, you very well could be attracted to a selfish personality in an endless cycle that reinforces your perceived need to give in order to receive love.